Time washes away the pain; the usual phrase we hear when we've lost something or someone dear to us. However, we tend to forget that the time washes away relationships too. Of course the distance, the crowd and the place plays a huge role in it too.

I'm going to pen this down in my; a girl's point of view. Everyone has their own clique of friends in school. Being all young and naive, we will assume that we will stick together through thick and thin even after leaving the school and going out to different paths as long as we keep in touch. When the time comes where we are all busy with our own workloads and the ever changing clique of friends, we then to forget. Of course the initial period we will be keeping in touch; inbox full of messages, calls every night, invitations to hang out together but the calls, messages and invitations will decrease eventually. Then we forget. Out of sight, out of mind. All in time.

I have my own close friends whom I feel are slowly, gradually drifting away from me because of the distance and new found friends they have made once we have parted ways. I will not be pointing fingers on who's at fault for the gradually increasing awkward silences between us. I have not started college life yet while they are already at it for almost a year which explains that my circle of friends have not changed or increased much while theirs are the total opposite of mine. I have come to accept the fact that people change. The only solution is to move on and find another clique of friends. I will still acknowledge the existence of my used to be close friends but that doesn't mean that I will not acknowledge the change in the relationship; don't expect me to tell out the more intimate and sensitive things like how we used to be anymore when we meet up five to ten years down the road.

Move on and be happy on what you have in the past and in the present while anticipating what you will have in the future.

"Some people are going to leave, but that's not the end of your story. That's the end of their part in your story" -unknown.

put a smile on. 11:54 PM